I’m always working to figure out a better way to be in this life and still accept where I am.
Some people want to stay comfortable. They don’t appreciate the challenges of life and how they help us grow.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s not always fun and I’m certainly not sadistic.
And with hindsight, I’ve always been able to see how things worked out for me and why I should trust in the current moment that they will.
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Are we limiting ourselves by our beliefs of the future? Only you can answer that for yourself.
How does Synchrodestiny affect us?
I had never heard of synchro-destiny before.
The first time I became aware of it was listening to Deepak Chopra’s 21 Day Abundance Meditation.
And, well since I didn’t know what it meant I had to look it up.
Synchrony means that things are happening simultaneously.
Destiny is relating to the events that will happen to you or for you in the future.
How you interpret the words as a combination can only relate to now.
We only have this moment and the choices we make in it.
Each moment is gone as soon as it comes. And then we are in a new moment.
We choose to stand in the lightness or the darkness.
The choice comes out of repetition or habit.
Every choice you make in the moment affects the outcome of the future.
I get it, sounds like I’m asking you to do that PMA (Positive Mental Attitude) crap again.
That’s not the answer though.
The answer lies in seeing that the choices you are making in each moment determine your future outcome, right now.
Maybe that sounds like bad news, it may make you think of every judgment we have about our past.
You could also see that you can’t get it wrong. If your choices have led you to where you are right now and that is reading this article that could change your perception, how can that be bad?
Timing is always perfect for you, on your path, because you can’t be on anyone else’s.
The effects of your purpose
I actually cringe at the thought of where I believe I should be sometimes.
Versus the thought of where others actually think I am.
By no means do I feel fraudulent, I am happy, healthy and I have many people to be grateful for in my life.
And, I still have down moments. As my former coach, Kristy Halverson used to tell me, “Welcome to being Human.”
She is so right because we all experience those moments.
What we resist in this human form persists for us, telling us how we get to look at our ways of being.
We get to challenge ourselves, get out of our comfort zone, fail, dust ourselves off and go for it again until we find what works…and then repeat.
This is expansion. Growth. New Desire. Our Why. Determination. Purpose.
I’m certain that you have heard the phrase, “If you aren’t uncomfortable, you aren’t growing.”
The effects of living in a space like this are self-worth, joy, peace, love, success, and abundance.
There are many differences between people who live their lives this way and those who don’t.
Mainly, it’s “The exchange,” check out this book written by Keith Kochner.
The exchange is when successful people, write a story that serves them.
The failure turns into a learning experience of how not to run a business or build a marketing campaign.
Breakdowns lead to experiencing the experience and then relaxing back into a new moment.
Your thoughts are not you, however, they create beliefs that empower you and keep you accountable.
This can-do attitude is a way of being in each moment as best as you can and not criticizing yourself when you falter.
Synchro destiny at its finest.
Your existence at work.
We chose to come here. To live in human form.
There were deals made before we came, to annoy each other into growth, be the sandpaper to refine one another.
Every single one of us is a gift to the other.
We are always teaching and guiding each other through this human experience.
And when it’s time, we move on. Reason, Season, Lifetime.
There are people I’ve met who find me a little too “woo-woo.”
The way I think and write is not their style or cup of tea.
This confirms every fear I was brought here to overcome, and I’m getting there.
These people, know on a soul level that this is causing me to grow past my fears and judgments.
As I have learned to surrender and accept their contribution to my life and existence a sense of gratitude fills me.
When I resist them, they continue to show up, creating an awareness of the areas I continue to grow in.
I may experience this for the rest of my time here, although the irritation subsides when you see the meaning of their existence.
It’s only our thoughts regarding the circumstances that allow the challenge to become more or less for us.
Remember everything you think about them is really about you, life is reflecting.
Clean up the way you think about you and you will find resolution in how you perceive others.
Your synchro destiny is happening, choose to be aware and live in the light of it in each moment you are able.
When you need an outside perspective to help you shift your awareness contact me for coaching.
And, when you want to work with the opportunity of cleaning up your thoughts about you, check out my Phoenix Program Workbook.
When now is all you have to change your future, be loving, be gentle, be kind and then do the work.
Until next week, all my love.
Agape ❤ ,