It’s crazy to think that what you put out is given back to you.
This is also the Law of attraction- and it’s not only about what you think about, it’s what you focus on, what your intentions are, what you speak about and what persists in your life.
How are you the space for what you are creating in your life?
Also, what can you do to change it?
When we look at our lives, we can see numerous things.
Unfortunately, human nature focuses mostly on the negative…or what’s not working.
Then you know what we do.
We keep doing it.
I know, it adds insult to our injuries; and, I’m not here to insult you.
Only to help you figure out how to stop the insanity!
Because the truth is that you are brilliant beyond measure.
Yet, we forget that when we are lost in our circumstances.
And, it’s not the good circumstances we get lost in.
Ok, enough, you get the point, right?
So, now that we know this is what we are doing, how do we do something differently?
Tool # 1. Get a sticky note and put one everywhere you spend most of your time, on it write your desired outcomes, it will remind you to stay focused on what you want.
And your attention will shift to figuring it out, rather than focusing on what’s not working.
Here’s why…the universe/God/source does not hear “No.”
When you focus on something even when you resist it…you get more of that.
Also, drop any expectations, put this on the sticky note too (Thank you to Holly Berube friend/mentor/coach/teacher for this amazing and transformational tool ❤ ).
We must change our focus and be open to what is…there is no other way around it.
When we stay open to how things happen, we no longer suffer, without expectations it doesn’t matter if things go according to how we thought it should be.
Find Tools to Heal Yourself
A friend of mine and Reiki Master, Susan Milligan who owns “Inquire Within Goddess Shoppe,” during a healing conversation with me, mentioned that some humans “live in their wounds.”
How wise and true of her to observe, we don’t see anything other than our problems when we live from our wounds.
She is correct, we get so caught up in what’s going on with us we forget the things that are going well.
Such as good friends that listen ❤ .
And, I could listen to her wisdom for hours, because she gives the insight of real-world tools.
For instance, falling apart is not something many of us would be open to doing.
Susan states that, “When you fall apart, you get to put yourself back together.” Tool #2.
I recognize that whenever I have fallen apart, life always comes back together better.
I create a space for it to do so by letting go of my resistance to the past.
Tools are so important; we all need outlets to release our negative energies.
Since we are all conduits of energy; we attract things in our lives based on the energy we hold on to.
This goes for people, situations, money and a ton more.
Some energy has been pent up for years, now I’m not telling you to go digging around to figure it out.
Because the truth is you are perfect right here, right now, just as you are, there is nothing wrong with you.
However, you can release the energy, the weight and the burden of those thought energies.
I suggest a good cry, beat the crap out of a pillow, word vomit on your most trusted friends, you can even write to transmute the energy.
Just don’t let the negativity weigh you down anymore.
Since I’m certain you want to attract more wellness into your life.
A Divinely Orchestrated Plan
I believe we can all rest knowing that we are doing the best that we can.
We can’t screw it up.
Since we are human, we will make mistakes, we will fall down and we will even forget and revert to old habits.
The great news is that no matter what, things always work out.
Every single time.
Knowing this gives us the freedom to forgive ourselves, and others.
Our hearts mend and we can love again.
We start over every single day.
And this is all ok.
Each time we come back, stronger, more resilient and with this knowing.
When you begin to trust that the universe/God/source really does have plans for you that you know not of, and they are far greater and more perfectly laid out then you could imagine.
Tool # 3. You surrender to this plan.
No longer needing to be in control.
You begin to flow with what is in life.
Worry is non-existent because deep down you know that this is the key to it all, a divinely orchestrated plan that is far more amazing than you could have ever dreamed.
That’s when you will want to shout about everything that is happening so that you can have more of it.
An invitation to you
If this is the way you want to live life.
When the goodness is overwhelmingly great, and you want to share it desperately with others.
Shouting at the top of the highest mountains so that the echo is clear as a bell.
Bringing back to you your greatest moments to relive over and again.
I’d love to work with you, because the kind of life I’m describing, and more, is available to you.
This is the greatness you deserve.
I invite you to reach out to me for coaching, see if we are a good fit to work with one another.
My promise to you is that if you don’t give up, I will be there to see you through. Tool # 4.
Your success can be enhanced through the purchase of my Phoenix Program Workbook which will guide you through questions to help you gain focus and clarity on your journey to loving yourself.
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I assure you, together we can share with our circle of friends a new way of living and help change the world.
Agape ❤ ,