A long time ago in my life I found out that I was a mistake…an unplanned pregnancy.
Oh the things I made up about that when I was young.
I’m not quite sure when the exchange in my mind happened. When I decided that I was no longer an accident, but chosen.
What I do know is what I have been given, life.
A lot of people on this planet search for their purpose. To me purpose is what drives you to live.
My theory is as long as you are breathing you have a purpose.
In the human experience, we ebb and flow, there is light and dark, every force has an opposite and equal force. Balance.
We get to choose how to perceive these experiences.
I want you to know you can choose to see circumstances with love and compassion. You may not always do that, and that’s OK too. Acceptance.
You can choose to see the lessons in situations and how you can grow from those lessons.
Explore life with curiosity, pretend you know nothing and watch to see what’s new for you. Our purpose is to grow.
Now, I’m not saying you will never be hurt, I’m not saying you won’t get angry, what I am saying is that you get to surrender to those moments.
I promise when you look without judgement there will be things you will see that you would have not believed were present before.
When you can’t see, that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. It doesn’t even mean you aren’t looking closely enough.
What it could mean is that you are hyper focused on the situation. Sometimes I have to pan back to see a bigger picture. Expand.
When I take a step back from my circumstance, or take a break from the thoughts, things always look different. They can for you too.
When you can’t seem to see things differently that you are thinking about, book a session or purchase my Phoenix Program Workbook, we can always help you find a little light in the dark.